Couple therapy : a new hope-focused approach /
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| Language: | English |
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Downers Grove, Illinois :
InterVarsity Press,
2014.
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Table of Contents:
- Part I. A theory of change
- ch. 1. Wanted : a wise and humble counselor
- ch. 2. A sensible, tested and effective approach to helping couples
- ch. 3. Making therapy a positive growth experiences for couples
- ch. 4. Addressing the couple's context
- Part II. Beginning counseling
- ch. 5. Pre-counseling interventions
- ch. 6. The intake
- ch. 7. After the intake
- Part III. Case studies in treatment planning
- ch. 8. The wounded but hopeful couple
- ch. 9. The cool virtues couple
- ch. 10. The enrichment couple
- ch. 11. The "should we marry?" couple
- ch. 12. The complicating factor couple
- ch. 13. The couple with a psychological disorder
- ch. 14. The high conflict couple
- ch. 15. The "accept the things I cannot change" couple
- ch. 16. The kitchen sink couple
- Part IV. Interventions within the sessions
- ch. 17. Session management
- ch. 18. HOPE interventions
- ch. 19. BOND with me
- ch. 20. Addressing hurts in relationships
- ch. 21. Forgiving and reconciling through experiencing empathy
- ch. 22. Reconciliation and rebuilding trust with couples
- Part V. Conquering the difficulties you'll face
- ch. 23. Assessing change throughout treatment
- ch. 24. Resistances, roadblocks and rabbit trails
- ch. 25. Counselors' negative reactions to couples
- ch. 26. Working with partners who have a trauma history
- ch. 27. Pornography use and internet sexuality
- Part VI. Concluding treatment
- ch. 28. Termination
- ch. 29. Post-counseling checkups
- ch. 30. It works, but is it true?.
- List of Interventions. 3-1 Assessing personal character
- 3-2 Personal narrative of self as "hero"
- 3-3 Prayer for a hope and a future
- 3-4 Use of time-out to develop the "muscle" of self-control
- 3-5 Interview a supportive childhood friend or mentor
- 3-6 Creative building of personal strengths
- 3-7 Building a new strength
- 3-8 Self-care interventions
- 3-9 Insight-oriented interventions
- 3-10 Partner-assisted intervention (PAI)
- 3-11 Developing wisdom
- 3-12 Locating the warmth virtues in my relationships (worksheet)
- 4-1 Counselor cultural humility development
- Pre-counseling 5-1 creating a video of webcast and having a web presence
- Pre-counseling 5-2 written materials
- Pre-counseling 5-3 capturing essential assessment materials before the first visit
- Pre-counseling 5-4 online or paper screening items
- 6-1 Beginning the dyadic intake session
- 6-2 Dyadic semistructured oral interview
- 6-3 Video assessment
- 6-4 Their first homework : our four best ideas
- 6-5 Client feedback on the intake session
- 6-6 Individual intake sessions
- 7-1 Writing the intake report and treatment plan
- 8-1 Seven tips for a good apology
- 8-2 Exemplar relationship patterns or processes
- 11-1 Narrative of a better future
- 12-1 The five-minute date (Jen's favorite homework)
- 13-1 Our communication rules
- 14-1 The cool down contract
- 14-2 Time-out
- 14-3 Ways to soothe in difficult interactions with a mate
- HOPE 18-1 simple listen and repeat
- HOPE 18-2 Simple leveling and editing
- HOPE 18-3 love busters
- HOPE 18-4 TANGO communications skills
- HOPE 18-5 LOVE
- HOPE 18-6 TANGO-E
- HOPE 18-7 prayer interventions
- HOPE 18-8 focus on Christian virtues
- HOPE 18-9 positive active resending (PAR)
- HOPE 18-10 gratitude
- HOPE 18-11 a coke and a smile
- HOPE 18-12 love bank
- HOPE 18-13 reattributions for neutral (or negative) behaviors
- HOPE 18-14 videos of communication
- HOPE 18-15 stopping negative reciprocity
- HOPE 18-16 the confirmation bias experiment
- BOND 19-1 reflective processing worksheet
- BOND 19-2 empty chair for relational hurts outside of the relationship
- BOND 19-3 dreams
- BOND 19-4 personal relationship vision statements
- BOND 19-5 perfect relationship
- BOND 19-6 sharing psychological needs card sort
- BOND 19-7 exploring hurts from family of origin
- BOND 19-8 bonding through spiritual intimacy conversations
- BOND 19-9 writing hot love letters
- BOND 19-10 graphing their history of closeness
- BOND 19-11 sculpting intimacy/space in office
- BOND 19-12 CLEAVE
- BOND 19-13 insight into the distancer-pursuer pattern
- BOND 19-14 healthy ways to get needs for intimacy and independence met
- BOND 19-15 improving sexual intimacy
- BOND 19-16 vow making
- BOND 19-17 sojourning together
- HURT 20-1 forbearance
- HURT 20-2 stopping rumination
- HURT 20-3 making restitution
- HURT 20-4 decisions to get needs met elsewhere while the relationship is in the "relationship hospital"
- HURT 20-5 grace
- HURT 20-6 preventing hurts through soft start-up
- HURT 20-7 transforming emotion with emotion
- FREE 21-1 preparing for forgiveness
- FREE 21-2 dealing with resistances, fuzzy definitions and fears
- FREE 21-3 letter of apology
- FREE 21-4 REACH forgiveness
- FREE 21-5 reducing the injustice gap by making amends
- FREE 21-6 forgiving the self
- FREE 21-7 humility in self
- TRUST 22-1 increasing positive emotions through gratitude
- TRUST 22-2 creating positive shifts for change through small trustworthy actions
- TRUST 22-3 dealing with reinjury
- TRUST 22-4 psychoeducation on time and trust process
- 26-1 Identifying triggers in their relationship
- 27-1 Pornography use internet application
- 28-1 The Joshua memorial
- 28-2 Community follow-up
- 28-3 A final termination report
- 28-4 Final assessment
- 29-1 The six-month checkup.